When Jesus gives this "new commandment", he says that our love is not just now required (as though we weren't already required under the Old Covenant to love God and our neighbor) but that our love is to be patterned after his love: "as I have loved you, you also are to love one another." (13:34) Later in the same discussion, in John 14:15, Jesus states, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments," and again in 14:21 he states that "Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me." And finally, in 14:31, Jesus says that what he does is not determined by "the ruler of this world" but by his own love for his Father: "I do as the Father has commanded me, so that the world may know that I love the Father."
Now, I point this out because till now I've always taken such passages to mean, "If you love Jesus, you'd better be sure that you're also obeying him," much like Mom might point out, "If you really want to go to the movies, make sure you get your chores done by dinnertime," as if the two could be divorced, one done and the other left undone. But as I read them this eveing, their unity came through in a remarkable way, almost as though Jesus was promising, not threatening, that if we manifest and experience love for him, we need not also worry about conjuring up obedience to his commands because our love for him will be the fuel for such obedience, and in fact is the beginning of such obedience. This reading, I believe, is confirmed later in 14:21 when we read the same thought turned around somewhat: the keeping of his commandments is nothing less than the evidence of our love for him, not some other thing that gets attached to love for him. He, then, becomes our model (as alluded to in 13:34) in 14:31 when he says that the world will know that he loves his Father when it sees, not his abstract "love" but his obedience to "all that the Father has commanded" him to do.
All of this is to say that I am again moved and happily perplexed that the obedience that my God requires is a happy one: to love him, and that such love not only begins my obedient walk with him but fuels it. It's as though he says, "Here, eat this feast, prepared especially for you, and make sure you enjoy it." Who could say that one's delight in such a feast was a hindrance to the command to eat it?
BHT